New approach
I took a seat and jumped back into the discussion with unexpected energy. Sandra wasted no time in hurling yet another subliminal jab at me. “Your gown is… Fascinating, she said. I took a drink of water and calmly said, “I thought it was perfect for tonight,” rather than recoiling. She was caught off guard by my confidence. The atmosphere became more tense, and it became obvious that this was a completely different kind of game.

New Approach
Countering insults
I made courteous but scathing remarks about the dishes and décor in response to her criticisms rather than taking them quietly. I mentioned how wonderfully the food had been cooked when she made a comment about it, hinting at the work that everyone save her had done. With each answer, her face tightened, and I noticed a glimmer of doubt in her eyes. Subtly, the balance of power started to change.

Countering Insults